Two of former San Francisco 49ers defender Matthew Judon’s baby mamas are living together with him.
The two women, named Lex and Arabia, made an Instagram video explaining this on Sunday. They also called the four-time Pro Bowler (who was released by San Francisco earlier this month) their “Master” in the video, which raised eyebrows.
The two women returned to social media to clarify their situation on Monday.
“First and foremost, we are not in a poly[amorous] relationship. This is not a throuple, where Matthew has two girlfriends. Matthew very much has one girlfriend, and that’s Lex. And they are in a monogamous relationship,” Arabia said while Lex was sitting next to her.
“I am very much single… It’s very much [Judon and Lex are] in a relationship and I’m single,” she added.
Lex then added that Judon wants to be an active father in his children’s lives, and this living arrangement allows him to be active for two of his children at a time, despite them having different mothers.
“Another thing… We don’t call him ‘Master,’” Arabia added.
“Please take a joke,” Lex said.
“[The ‘Master’ comment] was very much ironic, because that’s not the dynamic,” Arabia continued. She then noted how they take care of cooking and handling other domestic matters because Judon is the sole financial contributor.
“Because we felt like slaves for the day, we decided to make a little jokey-joke, and y’all ran with it,” Lex added.
While this whole situation might seem strange to those on the outside looking in, the bottom line is that it appeared to be working for Judon and his two baby mamas.
