A French cultural expert has revealed seven crucial phrases that could transform how locals respond to British holidaymakers visiting France.
MaryAnne Sparkes, cultural expert at cruise operator European Waterways, insists British travellers don’t need fluent French but must learn several key expressions to prevent being snubbed in the world’s most popular tourist destination.
Sparkes advises British tourists planning trips across the Channel, explaining: “Locals don’t expect fluent French but you do need to say Bonjour and a couple of other key words to avoid offending. In some places one word is your ticket to being treated like a local.”
The cultural expert explains French manners stay concealed until breached, especially in picturesque areas where existence follows traditional rhythms.
“In France etiquette is invisible until you get it wrong. Skipping a simple greeting can instantly brand you as an outsider especially in the prettiest parts of the country” she explains, reports the Mirror.
According to Sparkes, the most critical expression is “Bonjour” which must never be forgotten when entering establishments, eateries or any social setting. “Bonjour isn’t just a greeting. It’s a sign of mutual respect” she says.
“It’s how you announce that you see and acknowledge someone.”
The expert highlights six crucial phrases British holidaymakers should learn before jetting off, starting with “s’il vous plaît” (please) when ordering anything from café drinks to asking for directions.
Sparkes notes that politeness acts as social currency in France, with simple courtesies making an enormous difference to how locals respond.
“Excusez-moi” (excuse me) ranks third on the vital list for weaving through crowds or making inquiries, whilst “Comment ça va?” (how are you?) shows authentic interest even during brief encounters.
The cultural specialist also recommends mastering “Merci beaucoup” (thank you very much) for any gesture of kindness from holding doors open to serving food.
When inevitable tourist mistakes occur, “Je suis désolé(e)” (I’m sorry) maintains social harmony.
The final phrase “Puis-je…?” (May I…?) should be used when requesting permission in formal situations.
The authority stresses these expressions work best when delivered with sincere intention rather than perfect pronunciation.
“French manners aren’t complex but they are anticipated. These phrases mark the distinction between being endured and being genuinely embraced”, she explains. The guidance comes as figures show roughly 17 million Britons visit France each year despite its reputation as one of the world’s most unfriendly destinations.
With growing numbers of British tourists venturing beyond traditional hotspots into rural villages, these cultural cues are becoming increasingly important.
While perfect fluency isn’t required, understanding basic etiquette can lead to warmer, more authentic interactions throughout the country.
Sparkes stresses that simple linguistic efforts show respect for French heritage, something locals notice and appreciate.
“You don’t need perfect French. Just showing you’ve made an effort with these few phrases opens doors to genuine connections with locals” she says.
For Britons planning French holidays, European Waterways suggests rehearsing these phrases in advance, noting that even imperfect attempts win favour with residents.
The cultural expert concludes that mastering these seven phrases allows visitors to uncover the real France behind the tourist facade.